Let It Unfold*
I wonder how long it takes to get over the loss of the love of your life. It’s coming up to four years now I think since Seb split up with me, and yet I’m still not over him. Bear in mind: we were together on and off over a period of eleven years.
Six months after he split up with me, I started to see a psychologist for PTSD caused by him breaking up with me at my flat. I saw her for six months and after that I was better enough to meet New Chap and was with him for eighteen months until that too ended horribly.
It’s undeniable though that at a deep, core level I’m not over Seb. I go through the motions of dating but with such limited success that I’d give up if I experienced that level of failure in any other area of my life.
Part of my difficulty is my attachment style: I become very attached to people very quickly. Since learning more about astrology I’ve learned that my Venus placement is problematic: I have Venus in Aries ♈️ which I’m actually in a support group for on Facebook. “In love, Venus in Aries ♈️ people are totally addicted to the conquest” according to Cafe Astrology and this is all too true.
Speak to my psychiatrist Dr Stein about my internet dating woes and he suggests a matchmaking agency. Apparently there’s also a dating column in the Telegraph on Thursdays so am going to take a look at that.
Have a good session with Dr Stein this morning: mood remains up so he’s pleased.
Work extra hard at a very tough Barre class:
It is good to see my lovely teacher and chums. Six people cancel class due to Coronavirus fears. The world has gone mad.
Dad brings me back to the flat and fits my two new freezer drawers. Have a two and a half hour sleep and then do a module of my Flower Psychometry Diploma about Chakra Healing. I love this course, it’s fascinating. That is Module 8 so just two modules left before can start my Zoology.
Speak to Dave. He is visiting tomorrow.
Don’t know if have mentioned before but there’s this really talented young singer whom I follow on Instagram called Emily DiPace. Her album The 11:11 Experience is out now. Please listen: it’s on Spotify.
Happy Saturday everyone!
*2020. Song by Emily DiPace from the album The 11:11 Experience.